Nobody can solve your problems; That’s your decision and daily responsibility.


Maturity is the ability to reap without apology and not complain when things don't go well.
Recognize that no one is going to see anything in you that you don't see in yourself.
Stop waiting for a producer. Produce yourself. 
Teacher Amos.

 #Today'sBread

Before moving somewhere you have to discern where you are coming from. Sadly, you may be a Christian who is not going anywhere. You may be committed to serve Christ with your life but are immature, defeated and deceived. Your life is unfruitful and hopeless.

Discipling people to Christian maturity and freedom in Christ involves much more than leading them through a tidy step by step ten week Bible study.  Your or rather our maturity in Christ is a product of time, pressure, trials, tribulations, the knowledge of God’s word, an understanding of who we are in Christ and the presence of the Holy Spirit in our lives.

With God, be personal and ask: Who are you? How are you doing? What do you believe about yourself? And where do you want be or move? See, our past will always shape our present belief system and will determine our future unless it is dealt with. Every Christian is responsible for their own maturity and freedom in Christ. Nobody can make you grow. We as friends and ministers alike can only point to you the things that will help you in your growth and maturity; among them attending and participating in bible studies, going to church, reading and listening to Godly materials and many others. Doing all this is your responsibility. Your pastor or as friends we won’t come to force you to attend church or pray or fast. That’s your decision and daily responsibility. It’s a process you as an individual must initiate and follow through. Nobody can solve your problems. But you won’t be alone. The indwelling Christ is eagerly willing to walk with us each step of the way.

Who are you?
Eng. Amos. {But this is just my name.}
I am a Civil Engineer working in the Building and Construction industry. {Arrgh! This is what I do!}
I am Russian. {Mmmh! Merely where I live}
I am a Baptist. {This is just my denominational preference}
I could also say that I am six feet and three inches tall and a little over 135 pounds!

But friends our physical appearance and dimension aren’t we either. If your legs and arms were chopped off would you still be you? If my heart were transplanted, kidney or liver would I still be me? If you keep chopping of every part of me or I keep on losing my weight you will eventually get to me because I’m in here somewhere. Who you are or I am is far more than what people see on the outside.

2nd Corinthians 5:16 puts it even better, “…we recognize no man according to the flesh.” 
It’s interesting that we tend to identify with each other primarily by what we look like (tall, slender..!) or by what we do (carpenter, teacher, secretary..!) and in Christianity you’ll hear friends identify themselves with doctrinal positions (Protestant, evangelical, Calvinist..!) or our denomination preferences (Anglican,Presbyterian..!) or our roles in church (Choir Member, Deacon...!)

Is who you are determined by what you do or what you do is determined by who you are?
 
Your understanding of who you are is the critical foundation for your belief structure and your behavior pattern as a Christian. For most people, among them very devoted and dedicated Christians – what you see on the outside doesn’t match what is inside. Most of us who appear to have it all together on the outside are often far from being together on the inside. What we show on the outside is a false front designed to disguise who we really are and cover up the secret hurts and pain we feel about our identity. Compare this to a building being constructed. In case you are to run out of cash to complete the whole construction you are going to ensure utmost the front is done and finished well – where people see.

External appearance, accomplishment and recognition don’t necessarily reflect or produce internal peace and maturity. Never belief that a certain amount of of status plus the recognition it brings equals to a whole person. It’s like saying 2 + 2 = 6!


Whatever pinnacle of success we achieve soon crumbles under the pressure of hostile rejection or criticism, introspection or guilt, fear or anxiety! If this equation would work for someone they would have worked for King Solomon. But with all He had He writes in:

Ecclesiastes 1:2-3
Everything Is Meaningless
1.      The words of the Teacher,[a] son of David, king in Jerusalem:
2.      “Meaningless! Meaningless!” says the Teacher.
“Utterly meaningless! Everything is meaningless.”
3.      What do people gain from all their labors at which they toil under the sun?

And the book of Ecclesiastes goes on to describe the futility of pursuing meaning in life on an external level. It’s so unfortunate that on this earth people live strictly on the external plane. Happiness is equated with good looks, relationships with important people, the right job and a fat bank account. And a life devoid of these benefits is equated with hopelessness.

The only identity equation that works in Gods Kingdom is you plus Christ equals wholeness and meaning.

When we fail, we see ourselves as failures which only cause us to fail more. We sin, so we see ourselves sinners which only causes to sin more. We have been sucked into the devils futile equation. We have been tricked into believing that what we do makes us what we are. This false belief is the source of many unhappy people out here who are chasing this world’s vanity affair.
To  end today's daily bread lets read;

2nd Corinthians 4:16

16. Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day.

And check out this simple song talking about the fact that we've won:

 Tumeshinda  (We Have Won) 


I guess real maturity, which most of us never achieve, is when you realize that you're not the center of the universe.
Blessings and stay prayerful.

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